Bees..... The Sting

It all started with the Bees. A couple of weeks ago, Carolyn was out on the deck and she was attacked by bees. She got stung twice. I went and got the wasp/hornet spray and began attacking the area the bees came from. The following week, Carolyn was getting some kitchen stuff out from under one of our counters, and again, the bees went on the offensive and she got stung twice again. I then got out the spray and sprayed the heck out of the area the bees came from. Following the advice of some friends, I decided to bring in a professional bee man. Boots was his name. Boots was a character. He had to be in his 70's and yet had a mind as sharp as a tack. He did some poking around. He determined that the bees had absconded (left). I knew that the siding on our house was a haven for wasps, so I decided that a little renovation was in order. Since I was going to be working on the siding of our home, I decided that the best course of action was to close some of the gaps and put in new windows. I borrowed a scaffolding from Brian Hebert at Mena Steel Buildings Incorporated. It took us a bit to figure out the setup. The only real hitch with the front of the house is the fact that the ground isn't level and the scaffolding leaned a bit. I think this made Joe nervous when both of us were on the top at the same time. In the end we ended up working a high/low with one up and the other down.

I contacted Joe and he found some time in his schedule to come down and help me out. Our first scheduled time didn't quite work out, so we rescheduled to a time that was more convenient for him to come down. So... For the last three days, Joe and I have been tackling the house. My house is a cozy little two-story house with cedar siding. Little did we know what we had in store for us. I borrowed a scaffolding from Brian Hebert at Mena Steel Buildings Incorporated. It took us a bit to figure out the setup. The only real hitch with the front of the house is the fact that the ground isn't level and the scaffolding leaned a bit. I think this made Joe nervous when both of us were on the top at the same time. In the end we ended up working a high/low with one up and the other down.

On the first day, we pulled the siding around the 4 windows at the front of the house. Behind a couple of spots in the siding, the wasps let themselves be known. Joe did a good bit of the attacking, using up one can of wasp spray. After a short break, I took up the job of wasp assassin. The siding ended up taking a good part of the morning. Then we replaced the four windows on that side. What should have been a simple repair and replace, took us the whole day. I was dog-tired by the end of the day.

On the morning of day two, we reattached the siding around the windows and then moved to the side of the house just after lunch. It took us the remainder of the day just to replace the one window on the side and then put the siding back up around it. Because the windows in the bedrooms are a little different than those on the front of the house, I erred in my calculation of time we would need, plus I had to re-adjust my measurements. Of course the re-adjustment was discovered after I had already prepared the window trim based on the way the front windows fit. After, finally getting the window in place, we re-attached the siding. By this time, we were pretty tired and had to get ready to go to the Fish Net for dinner (Great food, as always). Then we decided to completely call it a day.


Because we only had one more day, we knew that we had to replace 5 windows and siding in one day on the back side of the house. We ended up getting a bit of a late start, but because we had already figured out the placement of windows, we were able to get on a bit of a roll. We had a return of the wasp wars on the back of the house. Joe even took a sting by one. By mid-afternoon we had replaced 4 windows and put the trim back on. After a short lunch break, we hit the final window. This ended up taking us quite a bit longer that I would have liked due to difficulty with the siding, but by early evening, we had it kicked out.



Then came the fun of taking the scaffolding apart so that I could return it on Monday morning. We gathered up the tools and called it a night. By this time it was after 7 pm. The whole job was a great learning experience for both of us. We both decided that when they put the siding on the house, they made a whole lot of mistakes, and some of them are impossible to fix in a short period of time. Who knows. I'm sure that I'll eventually fix all of the siding. My next task will be to power wash the entire house and seal the fresh cedar with a stain/sealer. But that will have to be another entry entirely.

I want to thank Jamie and Joe for their awesome contribution of time, sweat, and fun while doing this job. Also, if you ever need a metal roof or just about any other construction need, I would recommend MSBI for the job. Thanks Brian for the loan of the scaffolding. Would couldn't have done the job without it. In the end, it is so cool to be able to actually look out of the windows. The old windows weren't properly sealed and you couldn't see anything out of most of them. The whole job was a lot of fun, but a ton of work.

The moral of this whole story is, if you are going to tackle a big job. Allow three to four times your estimated labor time. I know that this would have made me reconsider doing all ten windows at once.

What's for Dinner????????

I've picked up a few of the cooking chores around here this week. I've cooked a pot roast, spaghetti, and today I'm cooking beans and ham. What I need is some great easy non-time consuming meals that I can cook up so that Carolyn doesn't come home having to do everything. So? What's cooking?????

"WARNING" "Quotes"

What people say sometimes is worth remembering. Here are a few quotes - some may not be worth remembering, but they are good for a laugh:

1. Life is just a phase you're going through...you'll get over it. ---- Anonymous

2. An autobiography is the story of how a man thinks he lived. ---- Herbert Samuel

3. Let us live so that when we come to die even the undertaker will be sorry. ---- Mark Twain

4.Life is a sexually transmitted disease and the mortality rate is one hundred percent. ---- R. D. Laing

5. Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings. ---- Anonymous

6. Don't have sex man. It leads to kissing and pretty soon you have to start talking to them. ---- Steve Martin

7. I admit, I have a tremendous sex drive. My boyfriend lives forty miles away. ---- Phyllis Diller

8. Women will never be as successful as men because they have no wives to advise them. ---- Dick Van Dyke

9. You don't know a women till you've met her in court. ---- Norman Mailer

10. I love men, even though they're lying, cheating scumbags. ---- Gwyneth Paltrow























11. All men hear is blah, blah, blah, blah, SEX, blah, blah, blah, FOOD, blah, blah, blah, BEER. ---- Dennis Leary

12. My father taught me to work; he did not teach me to love it. ---- Abraham Lincoln

12. When doctors and undertakers meet, they wink at each other. ---- W.C. Fields

13. When life is a beach, play in the sand. ---- Me

14. Human beings are the only creatures on earth that allow their children to come back home. ---- Bill Cosby

15. Beer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy. ---- Benjamin Franklin

16. If women dressed for men, the stores wouldn't sell much -- just an occasional sun visor. ---- Groucho Marx

17. Too bad that all the people who know how to run the country are busy driving taxicabs and cutting hair. ---- George Burns

18. A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones that need the advice. ---- Bill Cosby

19. All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt. ---- Charles M. Schulz

20. Any girl can be glamorous. All you have to do is stand still and look stupid. ---- Hedy Lamarr

Best Friends - Two Wild and Crazy Guys....

One of the difficulties of a youngster in a military family is the fact that every couple of years you end up moving - usually across the country. For some, the moves are across the oceans. Now in some respects, this is great. I got to see this country from one ocean to the next. As a kid I caught all the national parks and most of the major cities. I've been to New York, DC, Chicago, Dallas... Heck just about everywhere. The difficulty with it is that just when you develop great friendships, it is time to pack up and move again. I was torn every time we moved.

In 1973 (age 12), My Father retired from the Corps and the family moved to Mena, Arkansas. The folks bought a nursery and a home and a new and exciting chapter began for me. Mena isn't exactly the big city, but it was an awesome place to grow up. I joined the swim team and began making friends. Some of those friendships are still running today. There was Clay, Kevin, Steve, Liz, Pud, Steve.....

My time in Mena started pretty rough, the adjustment to a settled community was a bit tenuous. The people in the community were great, but I was used to the moving, with friends coming and going. I had troubles with getting to close to people. Maybe it was trust issues, but whatever it was, I had never had a "BEST" friend. I had friends, but none that I would classify as best. In the 9th grade I was in band and playing the trombone. One of my fellow classmates and band members was Vernon. Over the year, Vernon and I began to hang out more and more. He became the part of me that I had never had before. The two of us were thick, peas in a pod, two of a kind.

Vernon was named after his father, hence he had a Jr. at the end of his name (as did I). We were the two Juniors. Kind of like the 3 amigos, 3 stooges, and the 3 musketeers.... Vernon's parents were "Mom and Dad" to me, and mine were the same to him. We did pretty much everything together. If one of us had a date, we didn't go out unless the other had a date as well. We did a lot of double-dating back then. We were fortunate to have each other. Looking back at the time I had with Vernon - - I WOULDN'T CHANGE A THING.....

We graduated in 1979 and joined the Marine Corps on the buddy-plan. After boot camp we were both guaranteed to be trained in Avionics (Aviation Electronics). Somehow, my orders were changed in boot camp and I was assigned to the Legal Field. I was trained as a Court Reporter. The Marine Corps gave me the option of collecting my Avionics bonus and staying in the legal field, or getting discharged. Discharge wasn't an option - so I became a Court Reporter. My training was at Camp Pendleton, California. Vernon's Avionics training was at Millington, TN (near Memphis). We talked from time to time.

In December of 1979, I got married to Carolyn. Vernon was my only choice for best man. Together we stood tall at the alter while Carolyn walked the aisle and we said our vows. It was a moment that I wanted to share with Vernon. Several years later, Vernon married Paula, and I was the best man at his wedding.

We had a lot in common, but time and distance began to fade our friendship. From time to time we would see each other and it would be just like old times. Best Friends Forever. Eventually, I got out of the corps and carried on with civilian life. Years later, Vernon got out and carried on with his life with his family. Once in a blue moon we would see each other and it was as if time stood still.

Recently, I joined Facebook. It seemed neat to be able to talk with old friends and acquaintances. I've talked with people I hadn't seen in over 30 years. Some of my friends now weren't exactly friends years back, but people grow up as they grow old and the things we do have in common make becoming Facebook Friends now well worth it.



About two months ago, I connected with Vernon and Paula on Facebook. Through this I got his number and we talked on the phone. We caught each other up to pace on the years in our lives that we had missed with each other. Once again, I know that my best friend (other than Carolyn) will always be with me, even if he isn't here. Miles can come between us, and the clocks and calendars will tick and tear away, but Vernon and I will ALWAYS be best friends. After all, "We're two Wild and Crazy Guys".......

Wierd facts #1

I love funny and weird facts. So tonight, for fun, I decided to download just a few from one site which I linked to this post

ENJOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


In every episode of Seinfeld there is a Superman somewhere.




Eskimos use refrigerators to keep food FROM freezing?





Did you know that Jimmy Carter was the first U.S. president to have been born in a hospital?






In the 1940s, the FCC assigned television's Channel 1 to mobile Services (two-way radios in taxicabs, for instance) but did not Pre-number the other channel assignments. That is why your TV set has channels 2 and up, but no channel 1.




The sentence "The quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog." Uses every letter in the alphabet. (developed by Western Union to test telex/twx communications)



The San Francisco Cable cars are the only mobile National Monuments.



Average life span of a major
league baseball: 7 pitches.





The only 15 letter word that can be spelled without repeating a letter is uncopyrightable.





A duck's quack doesn't echo, and no one knows why.







Hang On Sloopy is the official rock song of Ohio.

Silly September Holidays.

I decided that it has been too long since I posted. I love the fact that Jamie has some of the most off the wall stuff on her blog. I love silliness, so I decided to throw some of that in here.

One of the most widely recognized holidays for the month of September is obviously Labor Day. We all look forward to the long weekend and for most, the day signals the end of the summer and its many wonderful activities. This year Labor Day occurred on the 7th of September. All the lakes were packed as well as many other activities (theme parks, ball games... You get the picture.

September has a lot of other holidays. These are all real holidays, but unfortunately we don't get days off or extra pay because of them.

Month of September holidays:

Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder Month
(I wonder how many others besides myself could celebrate this one);
Apple Month;
Childrens Good Manners Month
(I think a lot of kids should pay attention to this month);
Mold Awareness Month;
National Chicken Month;
Self-Improvement Month.

September Holiday Weeks

National Waffle Week 6th through the 12th;
Line Dance Week 14th through the 19th;-19;
Banned Books Week 26th - 10/3
( http://www.ala.org/ala/issuesadvocacy/banned/bannedbooksweek/index.cfm );
American Massage Therapy Week 23rd through the 26th.\

September Holidays

Chicken Boys Day - 1st;
Oatmeal Days - 4th and 5th;
Be Late For Something Day - 5th;
Swap Ideas Day - 10th;
Mushroom Days - 12th and 13th;
Talk Like a Pirate Day - 19th ( talklikeapirate.com );
Beer Days - 24th, 25th and 26th;
Fish Amnesty Day 26th; and
Shamu the Whale Day is also the 26th.

Now never let it be said that there is nothing to celebrate in the Month of September. I think my favorites are Talk Like a Pirate Day, Chicken Boys Day, Line Dance Week, and Children's Good Manners Month.

Enjoy your month

Thinking of Fish

As the month of June slowly winds its way down, I become more and more anxious over the trip to Florida in just two weeks. It is going to be an exciting time. It is going to be a very busy time. In case you couldn't tell, it seems that, other than family, the thing I love to do most is either work on fish ponds or actually be fishing. Florida provides lots of opportunity for the fishing. Beach fishing (where you get to try to catch one from the sand and not get blinded by the nearby bikinis), Pier Fishing (where you can catch anything from crabs to sharks - and not that kind of crabs Jason), and deep sea fishing. I talked to Amanda and Scott yesterday and they were telling me about their recent exploits off the coast. Scott has become quite the shark wrangler. My goal isn't to catch anything specific, but rather to just catch something that puts up a great fight and that is also BIG.

We will leave home for Pensacola Beach on Friday, July 3rd. We are going to drive straight through. That means that Walt will be driving while everyone else in the car watches a movie or sleeps. Hopefully we will arrive at our destination a while before sunrise so that I will have the opportunity to sit on the beach and watch the sun rise. Because everyone else in the car will have slept well, they will all take off and do something fun, and I will take the opportunity to catch up on a few zzzzzzzzzz's. Of course we all know what happens on the evening of the 4th. I don't know in which direction we will be looking, but I do know that we will be watching the fireworks pop somewhere. After that the FUN BEGINS.

I don't know if I will be fishing that night or if I am going to wait until the morning, but to me, the fishing is what it is all about. I plan to hop on the kayak - - go out just past the breakers - - cast out my line - - paddle back in to shore - - and wait for the big one to hit the beach. So that means that most of Sunday will be devoted to fishing. On Monday, I plan to devote most of my day to ..... Fishing.... and spending some time with the family at the wedding rehearsal and rehearsal dinner.

Tuesday is a different story. That is Jamie's big day. I will be at Jamie's disposal the entire day. I know that I will be setting up huts, lights, tables , chairs........... The highlight of the day will be when I pass the hand of my baby girl off to a young man who has won the hearts of all of us. I'm told that is when the real partying will begin. I'm still not certain how much of it I will be doing, but I do plan to have a great time.

Wednesday, I'll be back to my usual vacation schedule, hopefully joining Amanda on the boat for a day out on the big blue. If not Wednesday, then on Thursday. I plan to continue this fishing pattern until they drag me off the beach and force me to come back home.



Of course, when I get back home I will need a vacation to get over my vacation. I think I'll.........

Go Fishing.....

Shingo and Abby

It seems that too often we pick up the paper or turn on the TV to discover another murder-suicide. I always just nod my head and think how tragic it must be. Sadly, yesterday a 35-year old woman in Sherwood took her own life after ending the life of her 6-year old daughter. My memories of Shingo are of a beautiful young woman who had a zest for life. She was loved by all who knew her and just a lot of fun to be around. I hadn't seen her in 14 years and never got to meet her daughter. When I signed up for Facebook I didn't add her to my account because we weren't all that close. I have good memories of her, but I doubt she would have remembered "Old Fossil".

This is the closest that an incident like this has ever been to me and it is hitting me a little hard. I find it so hard to understand why she took the life of her daughter, let alone her own life. That being said, I UNDERSTAND all too well how the mind can take over. Common Sense, reality and life as it is viewed by most is completely lost. I've been close - - too close. I can look back at those times right now and I know that at the time - nothing mattered. I didn't think about those around me. I didn't think about consequences for me or my family. I didn't think about friends or my children. I just wanted my mind to stop - to shut the hell up. NOTHING MATTERED. I've heard people condemn the sole of a suicide victim to hell. I don't think anyone should have the right to condemn the sole of another being in the afterlife. I've heard people talk about it being an act of cowardice. It may be, but in my opinion, it is more an act of desperation. When things just seem to spin out of control and nothing seems to go right - when your mind just haunts every waking moment you have - when you want off that never-ending ride.......

I know that there have been times when I have been down in those depths and others have told me to think of my children and what this would do to them. Suicide devastates all who come into contact with it. In my case, the thought of what it might do to my family is one of the few thoughts that helped pull me back out of those dark times. Sadly, those very thoughts may have been why Dear Shingo took little Abby with her. Both will be missed by all who knew them. I do not hate Shingo for what she has done, but on the contrary I now feel bad that I didn't reach out when I could have. Maybe this is a lesson that many of us learn the hard way. Don't devalue yourself when it comes to your impact on those around you. You may be the one who can save the next Shingo and Abby. They will surely be missed by me......

Friday Night Out - Borrellos

BORRELLO'S - Vicksburg, Mississippi






Typically, Carolyn and I head to a restaurant after she gets off work on Fridays. Soooo, my Friday night section is now reserved for visits to eateries that impress me. The restaurant of this week is an Italian place in Vicksburg, Mississippi by the name of Borrello's. The restaurant is located in the historic downtown section on Washington Street. The streets in this section of town are paved with bricks. There are wide sidewalks and shops up and down the street (kind of like some of the shops in Eureka Springs). It is a beautiful old area that has been well preserved well by the building owners and the City of Vicksburg.



Borrello's has two separate dining areas, a bar, and a lounge upstairs. Although the inside doesn't particularly remind you of being in Italy, the food and service do. We ate in the main dining area. Being the predictable person that I am, I had the Spaghetti and Meatballs. Carolyn had the Chicken Parmesan, and Kori ate Shrimp and Scallops on Pasta with a buttery garlic sauce and mushrooms. The food was out of this world. The scallops and shrimp that Kori was served were the biggest I had ever seen and tasted awesome. I tried a little of Carolyn's chicken parmesan, but I'm not much of one for any parmesan items. Our waiter was very efficient and friendly and was helpful in answering questions about the history of the restaurant and the building it was located in. The building was once a large home/boarding house and was built not long after the Civil War. It was later turned into a Printers Office with the presses located in the upstairs section. The inside walls of the building were decorated in a lot of civil war memorabelia (but then most buildings in this area are).

On the other side of the building is the bar with the stairs leading up to the lounge and the outside eating area. The only problem that I had with this area was the Mississippi State and LSU items around the room (I can't figure out why nothing from Arkansas). Of course being the good Hog fan that I am, I pointed this out to our waiter with a laugh.



As with any area you might go to, there are good and bad places to eat. If you ever get to the Vicksburg area, you might want to give this one a try - - Good stuff.

Vicksburg

On Thursday evening, Carolyn, Kori, Norah and I traveled to Vicksburg, Mississippi. We came to shoot a rehearsal dinner on Friday and a wedding on Saturday. On Friday, For fun we decided that we would take in the Vicksburg Civil War National Park. I couldn't believe how big the park was. We could have spent several days just looking around at the monuments and plaques. It was impressive and sad at the same time. Just driving around and reading I could picture the battles taking place and the lives that were lost. It is amazing at all the ground that was moved by the soldiers on both sides of the conflict for trenches. Friday evening Kori and I headed to shoot the rehearsal dinner and then went on to spend a couple of dollars at one of the casinos in town. I didn't do well, but I didn't spend much either. I really hate gambling, but it was fun spending the time with Kori. By the time we got back to the room and went to bed, it was really really late. Our wedding contract on Saturday started at 1. I slept till the last possible moment and then got up and did a quick preparation for the wedding. It was really neat to be able to shoot in a different location. We had a great bride and groom, and the families were very nice. The church was nothing special, but the reception was held at one of the old Mansions in town and it was really interesting. After the wedding we headed back to the hotel and Carolyn got her turn to go to the casino with Kori. She did a lot better than I did (thanks to Kori tucking her winnings away and not letting her spend them back). I stayed at the hotel and babysat Norah. What a little angel she was. On Sunday we got up and checked out of the hotel. Then we went to the old Vicksburg court house where Kori shot a bridal portrait session with the bride and groom from last nights wedding. She really got some awesome shots. the will be hosted on the Hudsons blog in a few days. After the portrait session, we drove around Vicksburg taking in some great photo opportunities. If anyone wants some great photos, you need to get Kori and/or Jason to shoot some pics of you in that area. After an afternoon of sightseeing we got on our way home. The drive home seemed to take forever, but the trip was worth it in the end. I'll post some of the pics I took later...

Home - - Mena, Arkansas

Mena, Arkansas





With so much talk lately about all the damage and destruction in my town, I wanted to look at the community as I like to look at it in my mind. So - here goes...




I decided that I would do a little research on the area where I live. Little to say, I found out that my property was originally a part of Dallas, Arkansas. Dallas was the original county seat of Polk County. Mena itself was actually formed in 1896 as a midway point for the railroad between Fort Smith and Texarkana. It was founded by Arthur Stillwell while working for the railroad which was being built through the area. An investor of the railroad, Jan de Goeijen, helped Stillwell come up with the money to finish the line between Kansas City and the Gulf Coast. Mena was named for de Goeijen's wife, Folmina (this is the Mena part) Margaretha Janssen De Goeijen. There is an area of Mena that some of the residents still call Stillwell Heights (obviously named so after Arthur Stillwell). At one point, there was an elementary school in town that also bore his name. That property has since become a retirement/rest home. Folmina Margaretha Janssen De Goeijen not only had the town named after her, but eventually the main city park (Janssen Park) and Janssen Street were also named after her. Trains would stop in Mena to fill with water and supplies for the railroad. It was also a passenger station. Because of the business that was building when the railroad came through town, Dallas deteriorated and Mena was eventually named the county seat. Mena had its highest population early in its history around 1900. Much of this was due to the railroad stopping in the area. It was a bustling community with saloons and stores of all kinds. In other words, it was the opposite of what it is today.

Today, Mena is a bustling little community of over 5,500 residents. It is not a racially diverse community, but I have noticed that this is changing a little bit within the past few years. There are several things in this area that we seem to be well known for:

1. The tornado that killed 3 and devastated a good part of town on April 9th, 2009.
2. Drugs for Guns/Iran-Contra Scandal. (70's and 80's)
3. Marijuana (back in the 1970's - people I met in California and Texas knew of Mena because of the pot)
4. Lum and Abner (Norris Goff and Chester Lauck - a famous radio pair from the 1930's to the mid 1950's)
5. T. Texas Tyler (A country music singer and songwriter in the 1950's).
6. Queen Wilhelmina State Park (even though it is not actually in city limits).



There are good and bad things about every community. Mena is a beautiful little town with a friendly face. Industries in the area were hit pretty hard by the tornado a couple of weeks ago, but all are in the process of cleaning up and rebuilding. New housing starts and remodeling appeared to be on the decline due to the economy. The tornado took care of that in a positive way. Area businesses are thriving because of the tornado. For all the bad the tornado did in destroying peoples lives and livelihoods, it has been a boon for the area economy.

There are several small lakes in the area (Mena, Wilhelmina, Irons Fork and Shady), but to reach real recreational lakes, one has to travel to Lake Ouchita, Gilham Lake, Broken Bow Lake and any of a number of larger lakes within a couple of hours of Mena. The small lakes in our area are good grounds for some great bass fishing as well as crappie, catfish, blue gill (and other sunfish species). Nearby there are miles of National Forest and areas of beauty untouched by industry. Wildlife in the area is like a roller coaster. In the early years, wolves, bears, deer, elk, turkey, and many other species were very abundant in the area. Wolves, elk, and some of the cat species (mountain lions in particular) have been hunted to extinction, although once in a while someone reports the occasional panther, mountain lion or wolf. No confirmed kills have been reported in the area in recent history and this leads game and fish officials to report they do not exist in the area. Where bear were once plentiful in the area, now there are some still roaming the hills around Mena. The Mena area was once well known nationwide for its turkey populations, but over-hunting and weather have brought those populations way down. The deer population is very up and down. I know too many people who are poachers in the area and to them, hunting season is 24/7/365. We have a couple of rivers which flow in and around Mena including the Ouchita and Mountain Fork. We call them rivers here, but to most people, they are nothing more than creeks. The many creeks are great for fishing for bass and catfish. Near Mena one can also find Wolf Pen Gap. It is a huge trail area in the national forest for 4-wheelers and motorcylces. It is not uncommon to see vehicles pulling campers and trailers full of 4-wheelers on their way to the trails.

Land and housing in Mena is pretty affordable, but taxes, food, electric, gas, and other necessities are no cheaper to a little bit more expensive than in other areas of Arkansas. I talk to some of my relatives in the Northeast (Connecticut to Maine) as well as some relatives in Texas and North Caroline and they can't believe the cost of land here. An example of this is that here you can get a nice cozy house with a few acres for less than $100,000. Houses in town are usually a little more expensive than those outside of town (no surprise there). One relative of mine has a house in a coastal community in Connecticut. According to her, my house with the property that I have would be worth a couple of million where she lives. One of the best parts about the area is that the crime rate is very low. I'm not saying we don't have any crime at all, but rather that there are far less crimes in this area than anywhere else I have ever lived.

Industries we have in the area are not huge, but they do keep the community rolling. Wal-Mart is the largest employer in the city, but most of its employees are part time and are working for minimal wages. Very few of their employees even receive health benefits. Emerson (U.S. Motors), Brodix, Street & Performance, and several small businesses at our airport are the employers that many want to work for because of a little bit better salary and benefits. Among the shopping opportunities in the area, most do ALL of their shopping at Wally World. We do have a competing grocery store in town as well as several other small business which sell grocery type items. We have two new car dealerships in town and a handful of used car dealers. There are several agricultural stores (Atwoods and SFA) are the two most prominent. We have a couple of hardware stores. There are a lot of small mom and pop businesses (family operations) in town. We have a couple of video stores and one movie theatre. Overall, the town does have a lot of shopping opportunities, but the selection is nothing like one would find in a mall or a larger community. We have many restaurants in the area, but I really like just a few of them (Papa Pablanos, Fish Net, Spinellis, and Chopping Block). Of course there are some fast food places just like most towns our size. There are quite a few convenience stores and gas stations around the town, but only a handful are open 24/7.



Some people believe (especially the kids) believe that there is nothing for the youth in the area. I beg to differ. There are a lot of opportunities for recreation, but few of them are taken advantage of. There is a bowling alley, a movie theatre and of course dragging around town. The kids think this is it (except for beer parties out in the middle of nowhere). It is sad that they don't take advantage of the beautiful nature in the area. Fishing can be done year round. There are miles and miles of areas to hike, fish and camp. There are volunteer areas all over the community. I guess these are all too boring for today's youth. There is a community pool which is open during the summer, and Mena is building a skate park. If you know any kids who really want to expand their horizons and see what is here, just send them to me. I really like to promote volunteerism.

We have one school district in Mena and several smaller districts nearby. Mena has one K-2 school (Louise Durham) which is now the oldest campus in the district. One of the newest campuses is Holly Harshman which houses grades 3-5. Our middle school was destroyed by the tornado so the 6th graders are now attending classes in a building which belongs to Dallas Avenue Baptist Church. The 7th and 8th graders are attending classes now at the Hatfield campus (Hatfield consolidated into the Mena district several years back). The Hatfield campus is old and really inadequate, but it is better than no facilities, and the district already owned the buildings. The high school was built 1976 and has been added to many times. I've been told that plans are to build a new high school in the future and to place the middle school kids in the current high school (but I don't know that for sure). What I do know is that overall the schools here are very good. Oh, there are problems as in any district, but from my experience with my own kids, I was very satisfied with the education they received. I can't say the same for the education I got when I went there, but that was a long time ago and you can really see the difference in the quality of the students they now produce.

In the 1920's, Commonwealth College was located in Mena. It was considered a very liberal socialistic school and closed in 1940 having been accused of teaching communism. In the 70's Rich Mountain Vo-Tech was built. Once opened, it became a very active little school teaching mechanics, construction and nursing, along with a few other trades. Eventually the school was changed to a community college and the trade school mentality was replaced with true college credits. Over the years, the college has grown and in some areas they offer a bachelor's degree in association with other 4-year colleges. The college was severely damaged by the tornado, but repairs were quickly under way and the school plans to end the semester on time.

I can't even tell you the numbers of churches in the area. Sometimes it seems like there is a church on every street corner. Most denominations are well covered in our area with the exception of the Jewish, Hindu and Muslim religions. A lot of the churches in the area have really stepped up to help those with needs following the tornado. Several offer meals to victims and workers in the affected areas.

Mena has one regional hospital with a small staff of doctor's and nurses. It has a fairly good reputation, but does not offer the quality or quantity of care that are available in larger communities a few hours drive from here (Fort Smith, Hot Springs, Little Rock and Texarkana). We do have many doctors practicing in the area. There are several dentists located in town, but I have to go to the VA in Little Rock for most of my medical and dental care. There are too many pharmacies for a town this size, but they all seem to manage to survive so who am I to say. I do know that Mena does not have a trauma rating and in serious cases, patients are flown or driven to larger hospitals.

I guess this is just a little summary of Mena right off the top of my head. I just looked into some of the information available on-line about the city, but most that I found was either out-dated or inadequate. If anyone has any questions about this area, just feel free to message me. In future posts I will talk about other areas I have lived or visited.

Bob/Marley, the Perfect Mama

Bob/Marley/Bobbie Sox had five kittens last night. I have been watching her like a hawk lately. I was convinced she was going to have them last weekend so we took her to Fayetteville with us. She looked so huge. She isn't a big cat (but neither was her mom). Anyway, last night I decided it would be a great night to go fishing since Darrell had the night off. We didn't leave the house until about midnight. She was acting a little bit funny, but she has been acting funny for a couple of weeks now. I had prepared a place for her in our closet that she loves to kind of hide in. Carolyn was home and didn't go to bed until 2:30 am. Bob hadn't had her kittens at that time. I came home from fishing a little bit after 5 am. When I got home, the first thing I did was to go check on her. Sure enough there were 5 newborn kittens. The weren't as small as I was hoping they would be (for Bob's sake) but that is a good sign that they are healthy. Poor Bob looked like she had been beaten. She and the kittens were shivering and it didn't appear that Bob was able to feed them. I got a bit worried. I went to my shed and got a light that I could put over the box and that helped warm them all. I gave Bob some water, which she drank like a cat who had been in the desert for weeks. Because I was worried about the kittens feeding, I woke Jamie up around 6. Jamie is the resident animal expert of the family. She reassured me that things were probably okay, but told me to watch carefully. Anyway, Bob began feeding the kittens and was showing that she is the perfect mama cat.

When I got Bob, I was told that her short/bobbed tail was that way since birth, but many doubted this. The young girl that gave her to me just called her Bob even though she was a girl. It kinda stuck with many of us. I started calling her Bob Marley, while other members of my family called her Bobbie Sox and Marley. None of the names really bother me, and the cat doesn't really answer to any of them. I can tell that she does know the names, but she isn't a cat that you can go out and call when you want. She comes and goes on her own time table. She is an excellent hunter and is always bringing me treats. She is the most loving, people cat I have had in my life. Even though she was born and spent the first part of her life around a ton of other animals, since she has been with me, she won't tolerate other animals around, with the exception of the raccoons that come to eat her food from time to time. She complete ignores the dogs as she comes and goes. I am a big animal lover and have had some great animals in my life. My last cat, Arthur, disappeared about this time last year. He was a one man cat. I was sad when he disappeared and decided I couldn't stand the heartbreak of losing another one. I was taking some pictures for the young girl described above and she wanted to pay me by giving me Bob (clever way of getting rid of kittens). I didn't feel like I could say no, so I reluctantly took her when she was old enough. I am so happy that I did.

Now, for all you animal lovers out there, I didn't intend for her to get pregnant. She spent pretty much the whole winter in the house. We kept meaning to get her fixed, but being the idiot that I can be at times, I didn't get it done on time. Once I realized that she was pregnant, I could have taken her to the vet and had her fixed and the kittens removed, but I just couldn't do that. Soooo, here I am now with 6 cats. They appear to be very beautiful little babies. One of the kittens appears to be a beige/muted orange color with a long tail. The others are all variations of black, grey, and white. One appears to be marked very similar to Bob. The interesting thing to me is that one of the kittens has a tail that is bobbed and has the same little bend in it that Bob does. There is another who has an even shorter tail.

I do promise to get Bob/Marley/Bobbie fixed as soon as possible, but right now I am going to let her enjoy being a great mom. I am enjoying watching the kittens and look forward to when the kids and grandkids get to come see them.

From a man who has no right to say this, "GET YOUR ANIMALS SPAYED AND NEUTERED".

Disbelief

I've seen the destruction of a tornado first hand on many occasions. In 1993 the City of Mena experienced its first tornado since the 1950's. At the time, many people in the area seemed devastated by the damage caused by the tornado. I have to admit that I was in awe of the way things were just tossed around, but in terms of actual destruction to structures, it was a minor tornado. The city park received the worst of the damage. In March of 1997, I lived part-time in the city of Arkadelphia where I was teaching school (I drove home to my family in Mena on weekends). On the 1st of March a tornado struck there that did a ton of damage. The path was clearly visible and parts of the town were unrecognizable. As a teacher, I had to deal with the intense emotions of the students in my classes.

None of this compares with what has occurred within the last week here in Mena. Although this tornado wasn't the largest, I am in total disbelief of the damage it caused. I guess the part that really hits me hardest is that I know the people that were affected. This tornado hit home. What people who don't know this area don't understand is that this is an older community. There isn't a neighborhood that isn't loaded with old oak and pine trees. These neighborhoods were pretty much stripped of those trees, and much of the damage caused to homes was caused by the falling trees. I'm not saying that homes weren't torn apart by the storm itself, but that the loss of trees is what makes the areas unrecognizable to me. The stories of the survivors are extreme. The stories of those who lost their lives and loved ones is sad.

One thing this tornado has done that may help others is that people from around this area weren't really prepared for, or worried about tornadoes. Many don't heed tornado warnings believing that it won't happen here. No more. I wish that this would serve as notice to everyone everywhere that it CAN happen, anywhere and at any time. Even though it most likely won't happen, precautions need to be taken. May it serve as a wake-up call to all.

Organization

Last night Darrell and Katie came by the house. I fixed some grilled cheese sandwiches and we played pinochle. We decided that we would go to Irons Fork Lake on Saturday morning (today). Little to say, Katie and I got skunked by the weasel. Regardless, any time spent fishing is far better than work, even if you don't catch a thing.

When I got home this afternoon, I started in on the yard and the shed. It seems like I am making progress, but as soon as I finish one area, I notice that in making the one area neat, I have moved a bunch of stuff out of the way. It kind of makes it difficult to tell that I have made any progress at times. The other problem that I have is that I will start on one particular task. I'll be working away for quite a while, when all of a sudden I realize that I'm not working on the task that I started working on. I tend to jump from one task to another, and another.... I guess I'm not the most organized person in the world. REGARDLESS, I can really see that things are falling into place (all over).

Tomorrow I will be right back at it, and on Monday, Joe is coming down so that we can power wash the house. I probably should have done it long ago, but it always seems much easier to do things when Joe and/or Jamie are here. They are definitely motivators.

Enjoy the rest of your weekend...

W

Facebook

Last night I stayed up until almost 4 a.m. downloading photos and putting them on my blog and on facebook. Little did I know what I was getting myself into. Now I'm at war with my daughters. I hope I have the upper hand with all the boxes of photos I have beside me, but Jamie drew some serious blood from me with a photo taken in 1980. I have no clue what brought me to put on Carolyn's footie pajamas (and yes there was a flap in the back-lol). I also have no clue why I would let her take a picture of me wearing them. I guess I was unconsciously thinking of the future for when my kids needed some ammo on me. Truthfully, I am having a blast posting on here and catching up with folks on facebook. The only bad things is that it is very addictive. I hate to leave for fear that I might miss something. Yes, I know, you can't really miss something because it will be there whenever you want to see it, but it is so much fun to just punch some lines back at something someone wrote. I think Carolyn thinks I've gone nuts. She forgets that I went nuts years ago. Anyway Girls, LET THE GAMES BEGIN.....

Weekends

I know that it is Sunday and the weekend seems to have flown by. In reality to me, once you retire, one day just kind of melts into the next. The only thing more exciting about weekends it that Carolyn is home and a couple of times a month we get to see our girls and their families. I guess the closest thing that I can compare it to is when I was a kid and it was summer vacation. I can remember loving summer vacation and that the days just seemed to melt together. Often when you ask me what the date is or what day it is, I really have to stop and think. I do know that there have been times in my life when weekends didn't matter. When I worked at the pool and my kids were with me, every day was a weekend. Maybe that is the trick. Find something that you love doing. That way you don't dread going back to work or on the first day of the week all you can think about is the upcoming weekend. I know that a lot of you don't have this option at this point in your lives right now - - But hang in there. Things can always change... Happy Monday everyone.

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Texas

After my discharge, we decided to move to Texas to be near Carolyn's family. We started out living with Carolyn's Mom in Dallas til we both found jobs and knew where we would settle. I found a job in North Dallas doing Landscaping at Valley Ranch (Home of the Cowboys training facility). Carolyn eventually found work as a teacher in Keene, TX. Because of her job, I quit mine and we moved to Cleburne. By this time, Kori was 3+ and Jamie was 1+. My first job after we moved there was working in a bingo hall in Fort Worth, TX. The money wasn't great, but it was a living. It was an interesting experience. It wasn't what I would call a great job, but I did meet a lot of interesting people.

Eventually, I found a job working for a pest control company in Cleburne. They sent me to termite school at Texas A&M. It wasn't a bad job, especially since I knew that I was there because they were going to open a nursery in the spring. I learned the ins and outs of pest control and became known as the "Rat Man". I specialized in the eradication of rodents. I got to see experimental aircraft at Aerospatial while catching rats that were chewing on wires at the facility. I remember that at one little shopping center with a grocery store that I had a kill count of well over 1,000 critters. What a mess. As spring was approaching I was switched over to build the nursery. I prepared the grounds, built a greenhouse and ordered materials for the opening. A couple of weeks before the grand opening they hired a young girl straight out of college. She was a very nice person, but had no real experience. Because she had a degree, she was put in charge of me. I didn't take it well at all. So, I left and got a job at a competing nursery across town. It was new also. It didn't take long before I was rolling. I loved the people I worked with and had a lot of fun. Initially I was working part-time there. So, I took a full-time position working in the hot check department at Winn-Dixie in Fort Worth. It was a small office with a staff that was a lot of fun. You wouldn't believe how some people abuse check writing privileges in this world. They were still using carbon paper between the copies of the forms they used, which was a royal pain if you made a mistake. I had quite a bit of experience on the computers we used from working in the Marine Corps, so I programmed all of the forms we used into the computer and brought the office up to date with the rest of the world. I worked there for a year or so until I decided that I really wanted to go to college.

I began working full-time at Tumbleweed. There was a small junior college in town, Hill College, so I started going to school. I found that at some point after I left high school I developed a brain. My high school grades were not much to speak about. In college I got straight A's. I had one teacher that I took English classes from who was a real hoot. She would decide which classes she would teach each semester and then bug a couple of us to take her class. I had always hated English, but because her classes were fun, I took them anyway. I took almost everything that I could there in Cleburne. When I ran out of classes to take there, I transferred to Tarleton State University in Stephenville, TX (later to become Texas A&M, Tarleton). I took classes with a desire to receive a degree in physical education. The commute was tough, but a co-worker of mine was taking classes there as well so we rode together. Because I wasn't very confident in my math, I took pre-algebra instead of jumping right into the credit course. The book for pre-algebra and for credit algebra was the same. The first half of the book was pre, and the second half was the algebra course itself. Commuting to Stephenville and working full time was taking its toll on me, so I decided that I would drop out of school and stick with Tumbleweed alone for a while. I did take my algebra course back at Hill College. We used the same book we used at Tarleton. The instructor was senile and it was his last class before retiring. I expected to do the second half of the book, but when he gave us the syllabus I found we were doing the same work I had already done. I had all my notes and tests from my last class so it was a breeze. Everyone in class thought I was a genius (if they only knew). That was my last course for quite a while. I was given the management position at the Burleson (home of Kelly Clarkson) store. There were some awesome people working with me and I really gained a lot of valuable experience. Eventually, the owner's sold the store to a family who planned to make it a family operation. Little to say, I was out of a job, but I got a new job working at the GMF Postal Facility in Fort Worth.

Working at the post office was the best paying job, I had ever had. I worked as a mailhandler on the night shift. It was probably one of the easiest and most boring jobs I ever had. The unions had taken over the post office, so I had to join the union. The benefits were good, but the work was very monotonous. Unload a truck, load a truck, sort packages and bundles of magazines. Night after night was the same thing. I became the safety officer at the post office and found that with the union, my job was impossible. I was written up by my own union several times because of my writing up people for safety violations. Heck, black supervisors were being charged by the union with racial discrimination against black employees. The unions won and one black supervisor was booted down from his position. It was all a joke (not funny ha ha). I hated Cleburne and longed to move back to Arkansas, which we did in the summer of 1990.

The Corps

After my Junior year of high school, I enlisted in the Marine Corps. There was one hitch though. Before they would let me get a full clearance, I had to have a hernia operation. The doc at the recruiting station was a quack. I went back to Mena and went and saw the surgeon about this supposed hernia - AGAIN. He told me that I didn't have a hernia - AGAIN. I took his notes back to the station, but the doc up there wouldn't clear me. So, I had a hernia operation for a hernia that wasn't there. What I did have was a cyst (hydrocoele). Once I had the surgery I was all set to leave after graduation. My best friend, Vernon, joined with me and I referred one other person as well so I was guaranteed a promotion upon graduation from training. On June 29th we headed off to boot camp. Not a good choice. Compared to a lot of places, San Diego is not killer hot, but the worst months are July and August. The heat during combat training was murder. I had it fairly easy during recruit training mainly because I knew exactly what I was getting into and was pretty well prepared. Oh the stories I could tell about boot camp. But I won't. I'll save that for another rant.



When I finished boot camp I came home on leave and started seeing Carolyn (more on that in another post). We were engaged on October 19th and later married on December 29th. We started out living with my sister in San Diego and I commuted to school at Camp Pendleton, CA. Once we were able to afford it, we got a little apartment in Oceanside. It was a pretty run down place but Carolyn cleaned it up well. The only things we had to our name other than our clothes was a TV and her car. We couldn't afford furnishings, but somehow things were provided to us so that we could get by. A mattress and box springs was left in the closet of the place we moved in to, so with a ton of lysol, we had a place to sleep. My sister gave us an old beanbag chair that she had and that was our main seat. Slowly but surely we found old furniture here and there and were able to get ourselves set up. Money was really, really, really, really tight. It took the Corp forever to get me registered as married so that my pay would go up. I remember having to resort to giving blood plasma to make ends meet. Carolyn signed on to be a substitute teacher, but that was a disaster. Everyone made fun of her accent. It was very difficult for her because she had never been farther than a couple of hours from her parents. This was a major change.


After graduating from court reporter transcriber school, I was stationed there at Camp Pendleton. I worked in a small office with one stenotype reporter. Our office was busy and the reporter didn't like to have to go to court all the time. I got a crash course in reporting and then became a court reporter myself. I logged over 200 cases before I got out. It was a fairly boring job, but it was a cushy job. I worked with all the brass and was protected as a result. Don't mess with Corporal Gray was the Colonel's slogan (He called us the Two Wallys. His name was Wally Campbell). I was also known as the gopher king in the office. Because the gophers/ground squirrels would rip up the lawn around our office, we had to find ways to send them packing. Whenever I wasn't busy, I would get out the hose and flood their holes . They would drag their soaking wet little bodies down the hill and would be gone for a while. I can still remember the poster they stuck over my desk while I was in court one day. It said "Learn to eat your problems for breakfast" and there was a picture of one of the little rodents on the poster.



One of the first purchases that Carolyn and I ever made was a stereo from sears. It was state of the art. It had a phonograph, am/fm stereo, an 8-track player, and a cassette player. Looking back I know that the system wasn't all that great, but I was proud of it. One of the great things about being a young married couple in Southern California was that there was always something to do. We would go to the beach one weekend, to the mountains the next and to the desert the next. There was no shortage of things to do. Only a shortage of funds, so we did a whole lot of free stuff or at least very cheap stuff. We ended up buying season passes to Sea World in San Diego. They weren't very expensive and we went there a lot. All it cost us was the gas to get there.

In '81 I got to buy a new vehicle. Money was still tight, but we really needed two cars. I had a friend that worked at the Chevy Dealer near where we moved to in Vista, CA. I bought a brand new California Edition Chevy Luv 4X4. This just added to the recreational opportunities for us. It was a good little truck, but it had no ground clearance. My friends and I would go off road 4-wheeling a lot. Their goal was to try to go places that I would get stuck. Many was the time they had to come and pull me off when I got high-centered. I learned in the desert that lowering your air pressure can help to increase traction in the sand. I loved that little truck and all was going well... until Carolyn got pregnant. All of a sudden we realized that my little truck was not going to hold the two of us and a baby in a car seat. So... we traded in both of our vehicles and bought a new Toyota Corolla station wagon. We got it a few months before Kori was born and loved having it. We put a lot of miles on that old car. One of my friends owned a Subaru Brat (the kind with the jump seats in the bed). He used to drive off-road to get to places thinking I wouldn't follow him in the station wagon. He was wrong. It went everywhere he did.

In February of 1982 our first daughter, Kori, was born and within a few days after her birth I was given orders for an unaccompanied tour to Okinawa, Japan. I was overjoyed at the birth of Kori, but was completely down about having to leave Carolyn and the baby stateside. I moved all of our belongings to Dallas and got on a plane for Okinawa. Kori was just 6 weeks old at the time. It was a very depressing time in my life. Every week I would get letters from Carolyn telling me about what Kori was doing and lots of pictures. I felt like an outsider looking at my own family.

After I had been in Okinawa for about 6 months, I was given leave and got to fly home for two weeks. Carolyn had moved up to Mena by this time and was working there. I can remember the long flight home (sitting in a C130 re-fueler). Nothing like a 20+ hour flight in a jump seat (they aren't comfortable and they don't recline) facing a huge fuel storage tank. We landed for a short stop in Anchorage, Alaska and then flew on to Oakland California. There I caught a plane to Los Angeles and then on to Dallas and Fort Smith. Carolyn picked me up at the airport and took me to where she was living at the time. I don't think I have ever been so tired in my life. I was excited to see her and the baby, but I couldn't hold my head up or keep my eyes open. Poor Carolyn thought I had lost interest in her. She found out once I got a little sleep that this was not at all the case. One of the hardest things about coming home was seeing all of the things that I had missed by being away. Kori was 9 months old and was definitely full of vinegar. She only liked 4 people - and I wasn't one of them. She didn't like the fact that I was taking her mom's attention away even for a second. It took a lot of effort for me to hold her without her screaming bloody murder. I was glad to be home seeing my family, but when it came time to return to Okinawa it was even more difficult to return. This time I caught a flight in Dallas, flew to LA, then to Oakland, then to Hawaii, then across the pond to Tokyo, then on to Okinawa. I felt as though I was in the air for an eternity. Time did pass, but it sure wasn't quick. In April of '83 I got orders for Camp Pendleton again. I returned home, packed up the belongings and the family moved again.

This time we settled down in Fallbrook, CA. I was no longer a court reporter. I had been promoted to Sergeant and was assigned to a brand new legal unit (1st Legal Support Team - Delta). We got our operation running on the main part of the base and then 9 months later we moved our offices to the northern part of the base. I was able to apply for base housing, which we got on a hillside with a beautiful view of the Pacific Ocean. Just north of our little home you could see San Clemente, CA with the multi-million dollar homes with the same view we had. It was probably the nicest place we had ever lived in up to that point in our lives. Prior to the move, Carolyn became pregnant with our second child, Jamie. More about my children's births in another post later. Jamie was a welcome addition to our little family and Kori loved her dearly (of course we all did).

After almost a year there, I was given orders for recruiting duty. I attended school in San Diego. I can honestly say that it was the most difficult course I have ever been through in my life. The cool part was that we were at the recruit depot there in SD. It was amazing to see all the changes that had been made in the short 5+ years that I had been in the Corps. I did well in recruiting school and was given my choice of duty stations. I applied for Fort Smith, AR, Dallas, TX and Little Rock, AR. I was given my first choice. I thought I would be in heaven being so close to home. I knew a lot of people there. That isn't a good thing. I have this little fault.... I couldn't lie (or stretch the truth). The Marine Corps and Air Force had the highest requirements to get in at that time. When I found a kid who was trying to decide between college and the Corps, I always encouraged them to go to college. That's not what a good recruiter is supposed to do. A good recruiter isn't supposed to lie, but they did encourage not telling the whole truth. I had a big problem with this. Little to say, my numbers were not good at all. I didn't make it on recruiting duty and got out of the Corps in July of '85. It was an honorable discharge under medical conditions. More about that in another post. When I got out, they moved our belongings to Dallas, TX. I'll begin there in the next chapter.

Mena Teens

In June of '73 we moved to Mena with a full car load. My father purchased a small nursery with a house on the property. Part of the house used to be a general mercantile called the Old Rock Store. It was a four bedroom house on the west side of town. My bedroom served both as where I slept and also as the family room. Money was very tight. Everyone in the family was required to pitch in and help with the business. In theory that was great, but in reality my parents discovered that making my sisters work there cost them more than it was worth. I remember building flats for the plants, building cups for the plants out of tar paper, and then transplanting the seedlings. My sisters didn't care about the business and they would kill many of the plants during this process. Little to say, they were no longer a part of the business. My little brother was too young to contribute. I loved it!! From the time we moved there until when I went into the Marine Corps I worked whenever I could.

I mentioned that I thought that everyone in Mena would be a hillbilly. When school started I learned very quickly that although everyone talked funny, they were no different than everywhere else I had ever lived. I was still one of the smallest kids and no smarter than the average kid. The only thing different about me was that I was short but wore a size 10 shoe. During the summer months, the nursery business is very slow. When we didn't have work at the nursery, I got a job inserting papers at the Mena Star (the local rag). I don't remember what I got paid, but I'm sure it wasn't much. Gone are the days when you can get a job as a 12 year old. When School started I opted to join the football team. In CT I was in the band. I wanted to be the next greatest athlete. The only problem was that I was not gifted in the area of height. I was fast and I could outjump just about anyone, but size was what mattered in football. I got to play a little, but I really didn't have a clue about what I was doing. When football was over, I tried out for Basketball. Because I didn't take a physical in the fall, I had to take one before I could play basketball. Little to say, the doctor said that I had a hernia and couldn't play until I got it fixed. Turns out it wasn't a hernia at all, but I chose to go back to band. I played the trombone and had the edge on others in the band. I had been playing for well over a year while the rest were all beginners. I never did care much about band, but I liked belonging, so I stuck with it for a while. At least until I laughed at something that the band director said and she got mad and told me to quit laughing or leave - so I left and changed to study hall.

Jr. High Football 1973 (I was #39 - the second player from the left in the front row)

Things were moving along in Mena. My family wasn't getting rich by any stretch of the imagination, but we were keeping busy. We grew most of what we sold. We were getting landscape and mowing jobs. During the fall we sold mums and fruit trees. At Christmas we sold poinsettias and christmas trees. January and February were pretty much dead months and I still don't see how my folks got by. We had four greenhouses and three of them had to be heated during the winters. I can remember one winter was especially bad for us. Money was ultra-tight and we didn't have a customer for the entire month of January. Everything was so frozen that we couldn't do any landscaping. My best friend's parents (Vernon) owned a chicken laying house, so I went out there just about every day and helped gather eggs. In return I got crates of eggs and some chicken to take home. That winter we heated the greenhouse with firewood to save money on gas. My father did most of the stoking of the fire, but I took my turns every night. What a nightmare. I know that the temperatures set records that year as well as snowfall records. The snow was awesome, but the cold sucked. I didn't have a heater in my room so I froze at night. I was, however, the only one in my family that never got sick.

I guess I was oblivious to a lot of things that happened around Mena when I was growing up. I never knew that Mena was the Marijuana Capitol. I met people in California and Texas who knew of Mena for just that reason. I did smoke cigarettes and sneaked the occasional beer, but didn't go near the other stuff. When I got to high school, I rejoined the band and made a lot of new friends. I was never very good because I NEVER practiced. I was the foreman of the landscape crew and worked around the nursery when I wasn't on a job. I enjoyed the business and often got to skip school to go on business trips with Dad. We spent a lot of time together. After a hard days work, we would eat dinner and then go out to play some one-on-one basketball. Dad was left handed and had a killer hook. I was probably 16 or 17 the first time I beat him. After that we traded wins back and forth. Although I wanted to play football, baseball and basketball, the family needed me to work to help get by. I don't remember ever complaining. Once I got my license, my pay usually consisted of enough to buy gas and a movie on the weekend. I still treasure the time with the nursery and don't have any regrets about having to work through my teens.